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Jan. 13th, 2008 @ 07:12 pm HellBent
HellBent returns

HellBent parties are privately run erotic BDSM play parties in Perth. Totally free. The parties are very poly friendly with many poly active people. A strong 'web of intimacy' frames these parties due to the multi-faceted connections that people share in our social group.

With the build of our new house almost complete we will be making HellBent more publicly available.

If you are interested in attending a future play party, contact me at:

HellBentParties@gmail.com (place HellBent in the subject line to avoid spam filtering).


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Nov. 21st, 2007 @ 06:23 pm Hey All

I heard this group was pretty slow these days anyway, and judging by the dates on the post I would have to agree. Nevermind. I thought I would introduce myself anyway. 

I'm Trina, 19, got a boyfriend of three and a half years, and looking for a girlfriend. I think my boyfriend is ok with this idea now, but I'm not sure if a new girlfriend will be a casual or continual thing, because that all depends on the situation, the girl and all of that. I just thought I would post here so I actually had and this wasn't another community that I just joined and never posted to.

I read that there's lots of events in Sydney, well I live 5 hours away from Sydney...oh well. Maybe I'll get down there one day.

It was nice meeting you all anyway.
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vintage cameo
Sep. 24th, 2007 @ 01:54 am Sydney Poly Discussion Group
via PolyOz
This Wednesday, 0411 025 803 Poly social address 7:30pm
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Sep. 19th, 2007 @ 08:43 pm Sydney Poly Social: Change of venue

Just to let everyone know, the monthly poly socials in Sydney (on the second Sunday of each month) have moved to the Marlborough Hotel in Newtown (corner King St and Missenden Rd). We'll be upstairs in the outside terrace area - out past the pool tables. Starting at 4pm!

Hope to see everyone there.

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Aug. 10th, 2007 @ 04:58 am Sydney Monthly Poly MeetUp
Current Location: Sydney
Current Music: Marijuana Hemp Jazz
Am going to my first one of these this Sunday
(anyone else here in LJ from Sydney?)

> every second sunday of the month at Madame Fling Flong 
> (www.madameflingflong.com.au/ or Sonnis downstairs if it is booked) in Newtown, 
> 4pm-7pm ish. 
> Madame Fling Flongs is a sort of sit down cocktail bar type thing, 
> up stairs from sonnis on King street in New town
> It is usually advertised on the yahoo groups Polyamory Australia or Poly OZ (I think).
> Cheers
> Anna T
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Jul. 6th, 2007 @ 11:23 pm An Introduction - My First Post
Current Location: Sydney

Hi Fellow poly-skips,

Since i live in a poly-unfriendly social desert this group is like an oasis to me...
hoepfully not a mirage! :)

i have been poly all my life (am 42yo het male) but have been celibate for most of the last 12 years.
i had two short relationships at the 6 year mark but was surprised by how crap the sex was.
In each case the sex was good once only: when we looked in eeach others eyes and
made love rather than fucked. In both cases the girls were enjoying it too but were nevertheless
uncomfortable with the intimacy and didn't want to repeat it.

Indeed, such intimacy is perhaps better no rushed into.
But it is hard to find partners who do no want to rush in today's age.
In both cases i was pissed off when we split even though i wanted to split.
Seems we are not in control of attachment.

Basically i now refuse to get involved with anyone who has not already tried poly
because *all* my relationships in the past the girls were either: 
- not-informed of my polyness (when i was younger... mind you i never lied with "i love you")
- thought they could convert me to monogamy
- kidded themselves that they were poly

One explicitly poly relationship last for 5 years!
(she is decidedly monogamous now).

Have checked out CAW Australia but their allegiance to paganism put me off
(i have many pagan pals but refuse to belong to a "club").

Have spent a lot of time on polyamory IRC chat channel but few Aussies there.
They are a nice group of people that i intend to keep in contact with because sex
(as your motto goes) is not everything. 
Poly folk do have a lot in common besides sexuality.

i would rather stay celibate my whole life than not be true to my polyness,
but the existance of this livejournal community gives me hope.

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Nov. 6th, 2006 @ 11:08 pm I so did not know this
Current Mood: impressedimpressed
Ethologists now believe that only 1-2% of all species may be monogamous (Angier, 1990). None of the simian species are strictly monogamous; our closest relatives, the chimpanzees, practice a form of group marriage.

Among the 849 human societies examined by the anthropologist Murdock (1967), the vast majority (83%) practiced polygyny, men having more than one wife; monogamy was characteristic of only 16% of the societies.

Murdock, George Peter 1967 Ethnographic Atlas. University of Pittsburgh Press.
Angier, Natalie. 1990. "Mating for Life? It's Not for the Birds or the Bees." New York Times, Aug 21: B5.
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Nov. 6th, 2006 @ 09:05 am Advice on Kids
Current Mood: contemplativecontemplative
Hi Guys,

seeking a bit of advise,

I am currently marrried and we have a third person living with us. She has been with us now for six months.

We all get on amazingly well and I love them both dearly. In the last month the question of children has arisen and this is were I need some insight.

Both women would like to have children to me.

Does anybody here have any advise, warnings or what they think is common sense insight?

All feedback is welcome.
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Sep. 12th, 2006 @ 04:20 pm Greetings.........
Current Location: Adelaide
Current Mood: apatheticapathetic
Current Music: I Will Survive - Gloria Gaynor
I am a 24 year old bisexual polyamory living in Adelaide, South Australia.

My Journal is a general stream of conscientiousness. (Don't know the meaning, look up conscience @ a online dictionary

My blog is here >>
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Sep. 4th, 2006 @ 01:42 pm Another dreaded Intro Post :D
Helli-mlo Ppls

I probably know some of you from the sydney poly social, which I'll hopefull mek this moth :D. But to the rest of you hello! I am 21 and have 2 partners at present, both of them wonderful men :D. I'm hetro-flexible and am mcuh with the open honest communication and love so helli-mlo all!

Huggs (to those who wan them)
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